Create Fulfillment in Your Life
“Those who have learned the power of sincere and selfless contribution experience life’s deepest joy: true fulfillment” (Anthony Robbins). When I think about all the “things” that are in my life it’s clear that materialism is no substitute for connecting one’s self with a worthy cause, participating with people who share the same vision and values, or doing something for someone without any expectations in return. The feeling of fullness because your heart place is alive with energy and purpose is immeasurable.
Your resistance to change, negativism and unrewarding work are no substitute for doing something about which you are passionate. Fulfillment can be experienced through volunteerism, connection with your spiritual self, working toward a far-reaching goal, being someone’s support or mentor, or any activity that elevates your sense of self. It’s worth both time and energy to search for and find that vehicle or outlet which reflects your uniqueness and values your participation.
Denis Waitley says, “Personal satisfaction is the most important ingredient of success.” Feeling satisfied and knowing that who you are and what you do contributes to the well-being of people and community is powerful. Fulfillment is not the job you perform or the task you accomplish. It is how you feel about yourself because of the difference “being you” makes! Here is the question. “Where are you in your life’s experiences as it relates to feeling fulfilled?” Are you connected to something bigger than you? Are you engaged in tasks that are rewarding? Are you stretching your mind to explore new possibilities? And more importantly, are you willing to consider other options that could take you to a place you’ve not yet been? Take time to expand your self awareness. Find answers to these difficult questions.
Congratulate yourself if you are leading a fulfilling life. Give yourself permission to seek more rewarding avenues if you’re not. In either case, life is a journey. It’s your journey. What you do and accomplish in this lifetime and who you share your life with are your choices. Remember, you and your contribution matter!